In honor of International Women’s Day, I want to celebrate a woman who never appeared in headlines and never sought attention—my Nana, my paternal grandmother. She lived what many might call an ordinary life. Yet to me, it was anything but ordinary. She is the only grandparent I truly remember. By the time I was born, both of my grandfathers were gone, and my maternal grandmother died when I was just a year old. Nana was my living link to the past.

Memory preserves her in small, vivid details. She called the living room the parlor, a word that felt like it belonged to another century. Every Sunday, the smell of pot roast filled the house. Her clam chowder was a family staple. She colored patiently, always in small, careful circles. A bright green parakeet named Birdie chirped in the background of her apartment. On summer days, we’d make lemonade together, rolling the lemons and oranges to squeeze the juice.

For seven years, my family lived downstairs from her in a three-tenement house my father owned. Her oldest daughter lived with her; sometimes her youngest son did too. She walked slowly in sturdy boots and wore her long hair pulled back in a hairnet well into her seventies. At Christmastime, she could look out her window and see the Tower in Jenks Park in Central Falls, Rhode Island—a landmark that anchored her to place and tradition.

But woven through those steady domestic rhythms was something quieter. She missed her family. She rarely spoke about her parents or her early life. My mother once remarked that Nana did not like her own mother. That silence should have told me something.

When I began looking for answers, the census offered clues. On the 1910 U.S. census for Pawtucket’s Fourth Ward, her mother, Sarah Jane Kelley, reported that she had given birth to nine children, but only five were still living. One of the children lost was from her mother’s disastrous, only days-long first marriage. Nana—born Eliza—entered the world in December of 1892. Earlier that same year, in February, her older brother James had died. For six years afterward, she was the only surviving child in the household. Suddenly, that childhood studio portrait takes on new meaning. There are no photographs of her siblings as young children, but why was she taken to a photographer, requiring a trip by public transportation? Perhaps she represented both hope and fragile survival in a family acquainted with loss.

The 1910 census also reveals her nickname—Liza—and that at seventeen she worked as a mill hand in a tag shop. The household was crowded: several of her mother’s siblings lived with them, four in addition to a cousin, making twelve people under one roof. That same year brought another blow. In December 1910, her father, Harry Wilson, died, leaving Sarah with four children under the age of twelve. Loss, responsibility, and crowded living conditions were part of Nana’s early landscape long before she became the woman I knew.

There was another tragedy she carried quietly. While babysitting her first grandson, he died of whooping cough. Grief visited her more than once.

A later photograph of her, printed on silk (shown above), shows a poised young woman. My father always said it was her wedding portrait. Not every early twentieth-century bride wore white; many married in their best dress, as she appears to have done. On September 30, 1912, she married James William Taylor at St. Paul’s Church in Pawtucket, Rhode Island. Together, they would have six children and build the family that eventually included me.

As a genealogist, I have learned that what isn’t said can be as powerful as what is recorded. Nana did not talk about her parents. She did not share stories of crowded rooms or early bereavement. Instead, she offered pot roast on Sundays, careful coloring in small circles, and the steady reassurance of presence.

Her life was not famous. It was not headline-making. But it was marked by resilience, quiet endurance, and the ability to keep going after loss. On this International Women’s Day, I honor women like my Nana—women whose strength was not loud, but lasting.

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A few weeks ago, a client asked me how to tackle the mountains of photos in her collection. She had a lot of heritage images such as cabinet cards and carte des visite, but she really wanted to start with her more modern images. Those that she’d inherited from her parents and taken during their life and hers. If you’ve found yourself staring at piles of photo processing sleeves and carousels of slides, then you know that feeling of overwhelm. My advice was to start simply.

I’d never tell you to take all your pictures out of those sleeves all at once and spread them out on a table. Here’s why. You lose the context of the images. They get mixed together, and the negatives no longer match the images. Frankly, the whole idea of laying out all my photos at one time makes me shudder. It’s best to start small. All that sorting can be done digitally.

The point is to break your organizing project down into bite-sized pieces. Consider what you can get done. Perhaps it’s scanning a single sleeve of images at a time. Or you’ve budgeted for the project, so it makes sense to send out all images of one type for scanning. My earliest photo memories are sitting at the kitchen table with my Mom as she told me the stories behind the photos in the boxes. Those little moments changed my life. Ask your family if they’d like to help with the whole process. It can be a family bonding moment rather than an endless task.

That feeling of overwhelm makes most people put the task away for another day, which can turn into never. Instead, think about what photos are the most important to your family history process. A memoir has different priorities from a family tree book. In the latter, you are looking at modern images; for a genealogy, you want the old stuff.

For this client, a manageable task was starting with her parents’ slides. My advice was to review the slides using my strategy to reduce the number of images to digitize. Retain images of people; discard those that don’t unless they are important to family stories. Their vacation photos meant something to your parents, but unless you were there, you can’t share in those moments. I know that’s true for my own travel images.

Scanmyphotos.com offers carousel scanning without removing any slides. Number or label each box so that your scans will come back in “folders.” See their tips for sending material to them. Once those images are digitized, you can organize the scans using a digital photo organizer like Forever.com. Digital organizers don’t care how many keywords you use or how many digital albums you create. You’ll be able to find pictures instantly. If the organizer uses facial recognition, then it will make tagging those faces even easier.

Once you have a scan, the possibilities are endless. Identify the people. Tell their stories. Make family history shareable. It’s up to you. If you need help with any of these steps, email me.

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In this episode of The Photo Detective, host Maureen Taylor speaks with Brian Rhinehart, founder of CivilWarRecords.com, about uncovering lost Civil War history through archival research. Brian shares his journey from genealogy hobbyist to professional researcher specializing in Civil War records at the National Archives. He explains the misconceptions about military records, emphasizing that most are not available online. They discuss the rich details found in pension files, including personal letters, affidavits, and service histories, as well as the rare chance of finding soldier photographs. Brian also provides insights on tracking elusive ancestors through military, pension, and bounty records. If you’re struggling with your Civil War research, Brian’s expertise can help you find those missing pieces.

• Most Civil War records are not online – accessing them requires in-person research.

• Pension files can contain surprising details like letters, affidavits, and service records.

• Misconceptions about Civil War records—many expect photos or birth dates, but these are rare.

• Research tips—checking obituaries, veteran organizations, and associated soldiers for leads.

Related Episodes:

Episode 245: The Enduring Legacy of Tintypes: From Civil War Soldiers to Contemporary Artists 

Episode 60: Finding Pictures of Your Civil War Ancestors

Links:

• Civil War Records.com 
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• Like the Photo Detective Facebook Page so you get notified of my Facebook Live videos.
• Need help preserving your photos? Check out Maureen’s Preserving Family Photographs ebook 
• Need help identifying family photos? Check out The Family Photo Detective ebook
• Have a photo you need help identifying? Sign up for photo consultation.

About My Guest:

Brian Rhinehart is a professional genealogist and speaker and is the owner of CivilWarRecords.com.  He is a graduate of Boston University’s Certificate of Genealogy Research and is a regular researcher for the television show Finding Your Roots.  A direct descendant of eight Civil War soldiers, Brian specializes in research and record retrieval for Civil War and War of 1812 soldiers at the National Archives in Washington DC and has retrieved military files for hundreds of clients there.

About Maureen Taylor:

Maureen Taylor, The Photo Detective® helps clients with photo related genealogical problems. Her pioneering work in historic photo research has earned her the title “the nation’s foremost historical photo detective” by The Wall Street Journal and appearances on The View, The Today Show, Pawn Stars, and others.   Learn more at Maureentaylor.com

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Barbara Tien discusses her role as the “ringleader” of Project Kin on the Photo Detective podcast. After her startup, Ponga, shut down, Tien decided to keep her team together and transitioned to creating Project Kin, a community focused on storytelling and family history without any financial gain. She emphasizes the platform’s global reach, privacy importance, and its emphasis on story preservation and sharing. The platform is built on a foundation of helping members tell their own family stories, with tools and support provided for free. Tien also touches on her previous use of Substack to enhance community engagement.

• Project Kin fosters a community centered on storytelling and family history.

• It’s a non-profit initiative with a global outreach, particularly across English-speaking countries.

• Tien emphasizes privacy and the preservation of family stories in digital and physical forms.

• Project Kin offers regular events and resources to help members document and share their stories effectively.

Related Episodes:

Episode 237: How Storied.com Transforms Family HIstory into Captivating Stories

Episode 240: The Hidden Stories of Tattooing: Dr. Matt Lodder on Tattoos in Photography and Society

Links:

• ProjectKin on Substack.com 
• The Lafayette Project
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• Like the Photo Detective Facebook Page so you get notified of my Facebook Live videos.
• Need help preserving your photos? Check out Maureen’s Preserving Family Photographs ebook 
• Need help identifying family photos? Check out The Family Photo Detective ebook
• Have a photo you need help identifying? Sign up for photo consultation.

About My Guest:

Barbara is the “ringleader” at Projectkin, a community of family historians hooked on stories. After a career in technology startups, she turned her long-time love of family history into a free, platform-independent community that encourages families to tell their stories. Through free events, tools, and articles, community members share creative inspiration, tips, and proven “recipes” for storytelling projects.

About Maureen Taylor:

Maureen Taylor, The Photo Detective^Òhelps clients with photo related genealogical problems. Her pioneering work in historic photo research has earned her the title “the nation’s foremost historical photo detective” by The Wall Street Journal and appearances on The View, The Today Show, Pawn Stars, and others.   Learn more at Maureentaylor.com

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In this episode of The Photo Detective, host Maureen Taylor speaks with Amanda Meeks, the Community and Partnerships Manager at Permanent.org. They discuss the recent developments at Permanent.org, focusing on the Legacy Lab, a new program designed to help users create and publish public archives. The Legacy Lab includes an email course that breaks down the archiving process into manageable tasks, emphasizing legacy planning and the importance of preserving history. They also touch on the Byte for Byte program, which offers storage grants for community archiving projects, and the new gifting feature for storage.

Key Points

• Legacy Lab: An email-based course helping users create public archives; includes steps for storytelling, metadata, and legacy planning.
• Byte for Byte Program: Grants 100 GB storage to community archivists and organizations, reviewed biannually.
• Public vs. Private Archives: Users can choose to keep archives private or share them publicly; public archives support Permanent.org’s mission.
• New Features: Storage gifting and collaborative archives with designated payer accounts.
• Copyright Considerations: Users are encouraged to share materials they own the copyright for; measures in place to handle copyright issues.

Related Episodes:

Episode 184: Byte4Byte: Permanent.org’s Grant Program for Non-Profits 

Episode 95: How to Save Your Family Archive on Permanent.org

Links:

• Sign up for my newsletter.
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• Like the Photo Detective Facebook Page so you get notified of my Facebook Live videos.
• Need help preserving your photos? Check out Maureen’s Preserving Family Photographs ebook 
• Need help identifying family photos? Check out The Family Photo Detective ebook
• Have a photo you need help identifying? Sign up for photo consultation.

About My Guest:

Amanda Meeks is Permanent.org’s community and partnerships manager prior to that, she worked in academic libraries.

She’s a professionally trained librarian and an artist as well as an end-of-life doula. One of her primary responsibilities is managing the Byte4byte grant program.

About Maureen Taylor:

Maureen Taylor, The Photo Detective^Òhelps clients with photo related genealogical problems. Her pioneering work in historic photo research has earned her the title “the nation’s foremost historical photo detective” by The Wall Street Journal and appearances on The View, The Today Show, Pawn Stars, and others.   Learn more at Maureentaylor.com

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